Much to my surprise, it looked like my own hair! I noddles it for my husband and he was visibly turned on. That gave me the courage to wear it to work, where everyone loved how I looked. The wig colour--so closely matched my own hair that I could pull my bangs down and to get the right length. What astonished and amused me was how much more positive attention I get from men every time I wear this wig! It makes me feel like "me" again!